Extension Educator, Horticulture
Roses have a classic beauty and certainly a special meaning when given as a gift. The language of flowers was honed to a fine art in Victorian England. Flowers were a great way for lovers to communicate discreetly without the knowledge of parents and chaperons. Also, writing love notes was difficult when most could not read or write.
How the flowers were sent was also of great importance according to Laura Martin in the book The Garden Flower Folklore.For example if a boy sent a girl a rosebud with the leaves and thorns still on it, it meant "I fear but I hope." If the rosebud was returned upside down it meant "you must neither fear nor hope." If the rosebud was returned with the thorns removed, the message was "you have everything to hope for." If the thorns were left but the leaves removed, the message was "you have everything to fear." What pressure on the delivery guy!
No matter how they are delivered, starting out with quality roses and providing proper care can help to keep roses looking beautiful longer.
Good florists can be trusted to supply quality roses for maximum useful life. Generally you get what you pay for with roses.
Signs of quality roses: just outer one or two petals loose; green sepals turned down around the stem; rich, fresh color and crisp feel.
Signs of old, poor quality roses: many petals loosened; not much bud left in the center; a dull faded look; a soft, flabby look and feel; and water soaked leaves. These roses will open rapidly and be short-lived so avoid buying them.
Signs of immature roses which may never open: no petals loosened; bud is short and fat; bud feels hard; green sepals tight against the bud. I have used these for dried flower arrangements. Hang them upside down and let them dry naturally.The following tips are for long lasting roses: