Greetings Susan!
Thank you for your questions. Firstly, yes - oak trees can be topped. HOWEVER, ‘topping’ IS NOT a recommended practice for any tree, regardless of species or size (Source: International Society of Arboriculture). The subject of ‘topping’ trees is especially controversial along community right-of-ways. Topping reduces the photosynthetic engine of the tree (i.e., its leaf area); decreases vigor; increases susceptibility to insect, disease, and internal decay; reduces aesthetic value; severely alters your tree’s silhouette; creates potential future ‘breakage’ hazards from poorly structured crown/branches; and is time consuming and expensive to maintain.
Most experts agree that ‘topping’ is not only detrimental to the tree, but also unnecessary. Moreover, the practice of ‘topping’ is not a condoned practice in the professional forestry and arboriculture community. If you need to prune your tree, hire a certified arborist who knows how to care for your tree in an appropriate and diligent manner.
Hope this answered your question :-)